Yesterday I went to see a musical I was looking forward to for an entire year. After having dinner with my boyfriend we headed towards the theater. We were quite late already so that the lobby and the cloak room were nearly completely empty. I was busy getting out of my bulky winter coat and stepped towards the outer edge of the cloak room desk to put down gloves, hat, etc. in order not to get tangled up. The lady behind the desk asked for the next person to hand over their coat. I wasn’t at all intending to hand over mine as I still had one arm and half a shoulder somewhere inside it. But there was an older man standing beside me looking at me full of expectation. So I said: “You may go ahead.”. I’d say that I’m generally a well-behaved person but the man didn’t think so. He blurted: “Well, I was first in line anyway!”. He obviously didn’t notice that there was no line and that I was merely undressing. And I was so baffled, I wasn’t able to say a word. Apparently I left such an impression though that I heard him muttering to his wife as they left about the impertinence that just happened to him.
Same place, same day, 10 minutes later
We took our seats on the very left side of the theater. We noticed that they were 7 or 8 empty seats right next to us promising a better view. So when the show was about to start we softly slid a few seats further carefully paying attention that nobody would sit directly behind us.
Apparently we weren’t careful enough.
A second after we sat down a woman from somewhere diagonally behind us poked my boyfriend. She must have stretched her arm tremendously as she wasn’t even sitting close to us. He turned around to hear her viperous whisper: “Your seats are on the side, you can’t just take these seats and block my entire view! I will call the staff!” Obediently, we moved.
How to react?
In my mind I was getting more and more angry the longer I thought about it. All the things I could have said!
Can’t you ask politely?
Maybe you should have rented the entire theater!
Try to get the stick out of your butt! (German saying)
The staff will probably call the police who will then handcuff us. HAHA
I said none of the above but I would have loved to cause a scene (in my mind I did) but perhaps it’s for the best to do some things in your mind only. I probably wouldn’t have been happier by throwing all my anger at that woman. Instead I believe in bad karma.